The solution i've realised, to unreasonable happenings and people, is only and only to let go.
After a lot of thinking and well, i must admit, wasting significant time and energy..i found an answer
the sensible ones will know your worth and win you. Or win you back.
there are 4 rules in testing times-
do not be answerable to anyone who doesn't deserve your answerability
stop whining
smile
dress like a charm
life ROCKS that way
-A